“Where you arrive does not matter so much as what sort of person you are when you arrive there.” Seneca, Letters to Lucilius XVIII
I’ve arrived in many places… and I can say, I haven’t always arrived as the best person.
I have also left for many places thinking that a change of scenery would make all the difference, but I’m the same troubled person at my destination as my origin.
Deal with what’s in front of you where you are now. Only then can you enjoy your vacation.