I too often say “yes” too quickly. I am contemplating embracing the opportunity cost of waiting so that I can say “no” more often.

Do you desire a simple life? I do.

I desire a life that prioritizes just a few things:

1. My home and personal family unit;

2. Reading, learning, and writing; and,

3. Being outside to explore and hike.

Some might call me anti-social or hermetic. I see myself as more Bohemian. I enjoy a good journey away from society to learn what’s out there, and then return to share. I’m not much of a home body; and I don’t enjoy traditions as much as others.

If I’m going to be truly myself, I’ll need to say “no” to things more often. I’ll need more time to myself for exploration, learning, and reflection. I’ll need time to experience other people, cultures, and ways of being than what the regular routine offers me.

To start, I’ll need to ask for time before deciding something one way or the other.

You are not me. You might wish you could be more truly yourself. How might giving yourself more time to decide help you achieve that?