A band leader I work for did not organize himself and called me the day before a gig asking if I’d show up. I declined.

I love the band. I get so much joy from playing with that group.

I also love my time. I enjoy rest. I want to spend the time I have doing other things I care about.

It may appear difficult to release yourself of things you care deeply about, but you can.

The world didn’t end.

The show went on.

I got to see “Argyle” and enjoy some alone time.