Someone some day might call you “big.” And you might become offended. But wait a moment.
For some groups of people, expressing an observation about something physical and measurable is acceptable. It may even be a sign of care or respect. But wait a moment.
For some groups of people, that’s highly offensive to make mention of a physical characteristic. That type of observation is reserved for the inner circle of loved ones and family. But wait a moment.
How do we communicate when the expression of a physical truth can be a sign of respect/care or a form of shame or assault?
The best course is for both parties to be curious. Deploying curiosity requires the curious party to hold space for questions and for learning. That curious person must be willing to be make an update to their worldview given new knowledge. In this process, the curious person becomes more empathetic, a stronger communicator, and a more effective translator.
Genuine Curiosity — perhaps the tool that bridges the divide between people, places, and things?
