Resistance Hides.
Though "Resistant You" partners with others to get things done, it never shows its face, directly, to you. Ever notice that?
It's only after someone prods and prods you that you start to expose the real reason why you aren't coming alive.
"Resistant You" is designed to keep you safe. It uses other partners to get that work done but never directly does the job. If it did, we'd never listen.
To break past the work of "Resistant You," you first need to identify its accomplices, realize what's going on, make a choice to face the fear, then execute - come alive.